Tuesday, November 4, 2025

You Are All Awesome



 There is usually a point during NaBloPoMo where I'm really happy I decided to do it again, and it comes at various points, but not usually so early.

For various reasons, I have stepped away from the book club I've belonged to here in Ottawa since before Angus was born, so... 27-ish years? It was the right decision, and I have missed it, but not enough that I am questioning my decision. 

But WOW, everybody talking about book stuff on yesterday's post was fun! I wrote and published it a bit anxiously because 1) I do most things a bit anxiously and 2) I was afraid of sounding like an elitist. But I DO have some elitist opinions about talk show hosts recommending books, I DO! I am really happy for any author that Oprah Or Reese or Jenna recommends, because they're going to get huge publicity and more money. I am really happy that people that love these women will hear "go buy this book" and home in on their nearest bookstore like they're a sleeper agent that has been activated by a code message.

But I do want to make it known, somehow, that THEY'RE not the same kind of reader I am. Like Nance said, I don't want a copy with a sticker or, worse, a NON-REMOVABLE icon on the cover because I don't want people to see me reading it and think I'm only reading it because Oprah told me to. And I know this is dumb! And looking at all the lists yesterday I realized that ALL of them had books on them that I loved as well as books I didn't love. And if a friend recommended that many books to me and I didn't like some I wouldn't automatically think they're bad at recommending books. So am I just a snob?

Yep. Little bit. And I think I'm comfortable with that in this case. Those people that only read Oprah-recommended books likely have skills and strengths where they excel and I do not, but reading is not one. And the issue I often have with books that catch some kind of wave and everyone reads them - like Fifty Shades of Grey and The Da Vinci Code - is that often they are an example of a genre where they are thousands of other books that are as good if not better, but people tend to read that one book, talk about it as if it's the be-all and end-all, and then never read another book in that genre. 

Do you remember The Celestine Prophecy and/or The Shack? Both of these were popular during my time at the bookstore, and people would come in and rave about them and say they were so glad "a book like that" was making it out to people. I read them both. They were populist dreck. The Celestine Prophecy was a bunch of faux-mystical claptrap and The Shack was badly-written and had cringe racial stereotypes (IN MY OPINION, I hasten to add). I would have to close my eyes to prevent myself from rolling them when another customer came in rhapsodizing. 

But also, that's fine. Any book that goes stratospheric, whether I think it's good or not, has something arbitrary happen somewhere in the process. There are likely books in the slush pile that are just as good (if not better), as books that get published, although I worked at an audio publisher for a while and worked my way through a slush pile, and I have to say, there are fewer buried treasures in there than I hoped there might be ("UFOs, Religion, and You" - not good, friends, it was not good).

I would say this makes me hopeful for my NaBloPoMo momentum, but tomorrow is my longest work day and then I'm driving five hours on Thursday for a weekend away, so not so much. Still, fun.

Pictures of my bookshelves, pretentious and less so. 




12 comments:

Swistle said...

I try to fight the natural urge to reject anything wildly popular---except, sometimes I am SO RIGHT to reject it. Case in point: The Da Vinci Code. So badly written. So badly written. Just so extremely popular and so extremely badly written. And as someone who works in a library: ANYTHING THAT GETS PEOPLE READING IS GOOD. But...it is so hard when it is something so badly written.

Bibliomama said...

YUP.

San said...

Haha, I am also one of the people who, on principle, rejects things that are TOO HYPED UP. LOL

Sarah said...

I have unabashedly low brow tastes tho and usually love the hyped book.

Nicole said...

I have never once thought someone might be looking at the cover of my book and drawing conclusions about me! Because a sticker on the cover, well, it never occurs to me that might say something about me in any way. Then again, my copy of Sense and Sensibility I bought in the 90s and it has Hugh Grant and Kate Winslet on the cover, with "Now a major motion picture!" on it.
But I do take your point about blockbuster books crowding out many others. It's kind of like podcasts now. Independent podcasts used to be able to make money, and now they are crowded out by the big celebrity podcasts. I guess this is why it's so hard to make money writing, or even to get traditionally published. That said, if my book went stratospheric, I would not mind.

Nicole said...

Coming back to say that I JUST read on Catherine Newman's substack that Wreck is Good Morning America's November pick! She says that this is the first time EVER that she feels somewhat financially comfortable, in that she doesn't have to hustle every moment of the day just to make ends meet. Her example is that she bought a bagel at the airport instead of bringing one from home, and her husband was like "who are we, Bill Gates?" Funny and also makes me feel incredibly privileged and spoiled, as I would never think of bringing my own bagel from home to save money. Yeesh I'm spoiled.

Jenny said...

Well, on the podcast I love- Currently Reading- they occasionally rant against the non-removable icon on the front of celebrity book club books- they think it just ruins the aesthetic. It wouldn't bother me, but if I had a choice to get a copy without that, I would. Also- I'm neutral about these book clubs to begin with- I wouldn't avoid a book just because Oprah liked it, but I also wouldn't run right out to buy it either.

Angela L said...

Greetings from a fellow NaBloPoMo-er! I'm with you - while I don't read many physical books, I hate when I happen to read one of those recommended by a celebrity and someone thinks that's why. No, people, I read it because a) it sounded good, b) it was free via Kobo Plus, available from my library, or from an other I know I like, and c) was in the mood to read it. If anything, a celebrity recommendation would keep me from wanting to read a book, at least for the first few years after.

Suzanne said...

I 100% understand the desire not to have a irremovable icon on one's book, and I relate very strongly to the idea that I am fine with reading a book that, incidentally, Oprah et al may have recommended, but I am NOT fine with people thinking that I made a book choice based on Oprah etc.

And now I think I need more information about your thoughts on pretentious vs. unpretentious books! I can look at my own shelves and think, Hmm, I don't know that I'd want my boss or X person I admire greatly to come in here and see my copies of XYZ... but then again, I am fine with my Sue Grafton collection and my husband's Game of Thrones books. So where is the line?!?! (I am just totally interested in the topic, I hope you know I a) will not judge YOUR choices and b) would be delighted to know your most snobbish thoughts on the subject.)

Nance said...

I hear you. And I read The DaVinci Code and the whole time I did two things:
1. Continued to wage my ongoing battle with the Catholic church, renewing my ammo
2. Kept rolling my eyes at the cliffhanger chapter endings and cheap tricks that I wouldn't allow my highschool creative writers to employ.

My bookshelves have a bunch of pretentious stuff (Victorian novels) as well as my Stephen King collection (which stops short because I just could not stand it anymore LEARN HOW TO END A BOOK FOR GODSAKES AND STOP USING THE SAME PHRASES OVER AND OVER AGAIN, WILLYA?!) and my collection of biographies and nonfiction books about President Lincoln and Mary Lincoln in among some other good stuff.

I fervently want more people to read. I do. But don't deface my book cover with blather.

J said...

Remember when we would meet new people, and they would come over and get to know you by looking at your bookshelf and your records or CD’s? Sigh. I have cut back my book collection many times because our place is small and our daughter isn’t moving out, so I can’t make her room into a library like I dreamed for so many years. I’d rather have her than books, but SIGH.

Anyway, I would never let a sticker on a book cover keep me from reading something I want to read, but I don’t read books based on the stickers either.

Your bookshelves are #goals man, #goals.

Busy Bee Suz said...

I love your pure honesty about this and it's ok to be a snob in some areas of life, but you (we) can't be a snob in all areas. Right?
Much like Sarah, apparently, I have low-brow taste in books. I've read some of the ones that are hyped, but generally, I'm behind in the timing, like years behind...But I suppose what really matters is that I'm reading something.

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