Monday, November 17, 2025

Thanks for Asking! (literally)

I guess we're in The Back Nine of NaBloPoMo, and winter has arrived here in Ontario, so the fact that my blog vigour is flagging somewhat is not terribly surprising. I do have a few posts that I worked on ahead of time, but for today I'm going to answer questions about the names posts, because it's an easy post and also because I see that it's a little weird that I just dropped that fact about my dad's last name and didn't elaborate.

Not that there's a whole lot more to tell, but I do agree that it's unusual, except that it was 1940 and my grandparents lived in Stony Rapids, Saskatchewan, which is identified as a 'hamlet', is less than a 100 km south of the Northwest Territories with a sub-arctic climate, and in the 2021 census had a recorded population of 219. They were absolutely literate - my grandfather was a voracious reader, as is my father - but I just don't think anyone had the energy to get exercised about this clerical error. As far as I know it never caused any issues (definitely fewer than having to give Angus "Robert" as a first name, not that I'm bitter and bring this up every chance I get). One of my husband's favourite stories about my dad is that when he moved to the city for high school he thought it was weird seeing people on bicycles in the streets in the summer - the only time they could ride bikes in Stony was in winter when the river froze.

San's question about whether Angus liked his name also made me stop and think - Eve has stated on more than one occasion that she likes her name, which makes me so happy, and I knew that Angus had talked about people liking his name in baseball, but I don't think I had ever actually asked him. So I texted him, and this is how that went.












I'm really happy San asked! Two for two how cool is that? I don't have strong feelings about my own name, particularly since family lore is that I was named after, not a cherished relative or literary reference, but Lady Allison who was .... a horse. 

We would get talking about baby names, unsurprisingly, in playgroup. Collette named her first boy Jacob and the second one Ben, and both turned out to be number one name choices in that year - if I remember correctly she had had the name Jacob as a favourite forever, and caved to her husband on Ben, so she was less than thrilled in both cases. I guess I was kind of shooting for names that would be recognizable but wouldn't have four in every class, although who cares, really. I love the name Emma and in Angus's grade two class there were only six girls and half were named Emma - I still love it. I didn't find out the gender for either kid, but I was pretty set on Angus for a boy. Rachel or Isabel were strong contenders for a girl, but when Eve was born suddenly I thought she was an Eve. I think she's only ever met one of two other Eves (there were a few more Evas). Obviously if Angus was on the east coast or in Scotland he'd be one among many. As it is, it's just him and Jody's bunny





7 comments:

Suzanne said...

I love everything about this response.

Lady Allison was a horse. A. Horse.

Sarah said...

SO MANY JACKS. (almost no harrys tho)

Jenny said...

Weirdly, we named our son Paul (wait that's not the weird part) which you'd think would be really common- but there were NO other Paul's in any of his classes, ever. I guess it's just not something people name their kids nowadays? It's a well-known but actually unpopular name right now. My daughter hated her name (Angie) for a long time, but now she likes it. Phew.
Angus and Eve are awesome names!

Nicole said...

I like the name Robert!!!
I was prepared for there to be a zillion Jakes, just like there's a zillion 50-year-old Nicoles, when he started school, but there weren't. He was always the only Jake in his class - same with Mark, but that's not a popular name these days.

NGS said...

American here: I've never met an Angus. More data to add to your arsenal!

StephLove said...

Since you shared you were named after a horse... I'm named after my father (Steven) which would be fine, except I also have his last name and my middle is a family name from his side, which seems a bit lopsided. My mom told me recently she wanted my middle to be her mother's middle name and I was sorry to hear she didn't get her way, though the rhythm of my name really is better as is.

Nance said...

I like both names! I'm so glad your kids do, too. Mine like theirs as well.

I've always hated my name, and I do not think it suits me. My grandmother used to call me Samantha Jane, which I still wish had been my given name. Instead, I was named after the Frank Sinatra song "Nancy with the Laughing Face" because my mother's doctor told her I smiled the moment I was born.

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