Sunday, November 2, 2025

Halloween Party

 First of all, Lucy is NOT cool with the time change. She has been standing there alternately staring at her food bowl and me for the last fifteen minutes. We usually feed her at five, and I am determined to hold out at least until four, and then shift gradually over the next couple of weeks.


Content warning: Mild drunken debauchery. Skip if that's not your thing. 

As I mentioned, our friends Janet and Dave always have a Halloween party the Saturday before Halloween. It's potluck for food, they usually make some kind of yummy drink and there is a penalty drink for anyone who doesn't wear a costume. The implication is that the penalty drink will be unpalatable, but I don't recall anyone ever having to drink the penalty drink. 


The party begins the same - we arrive, admire everyone's costumes, catch up with anyone we haven't seen for a while - but, unsurprisingly, it doesn't always end the same, and the vibe is variable. Some years we go hard until 4 a.m. and I walk home, and have to walk over to retrieve my vehicle and whatever is left of my dignity. Some years we end up watching a bunch of music videos and arguing about the best guitar players and impugning everyone else's taste in music. Some years it's mellow and we just sit around and talk.

Human disco ball. She threw really cool lights on the ceiling.

 

Ghostbuster. There were no ghosts at the party, well done Dave

Viking

Other viking. Dog.

Disco ball, Yukon Cornelius from Rudolph, Laura Ingalls, K-Pop Demon Hunter

This year Caitlin - Janet and Dave's daughter - brought out her homemade Chutes and Ladders drinking game, which I maintain should have an upper age limit if you're actually drinking alcohol, because it was acceptable to play and just drink Coke or water.

I have also mentioned that most of our kids who still live locally inexplicable choose to hang out with us, and then some of their friends end up also hanging out with us, and sometimes I wonder if it all might become the slightest bit...

unseemly?...


All consenting adults!

Honestly, when I first read 'baby birding' I was worried we'd have to spit the shot in someone's mouth, so this was kind of a relief. 

Arm wrestle

Staring contest


Jacob having to do jumping jacks until Melanie took a shot. She took her time. 


I was relying on Rachel's girlfriend Alina to help me find my playing piece and move it the appropriate number of spaces and then read whatever was on the space, not because I was too drunk to read, but because my eyes were too old and I didn't have my reading glasses. So I should not have been surprised when Collette later revealed that the younger set started conspiring to have Michael land on all the spaces with embarrassing stuff. This worked out fine because Michael is a good sport, and is probably the only one that would have been able to wear Rachel's costume easily when they had to trade.

Rachel looked kind of fire in his costume also, so win-win?


18 comments:

Jenny said...

Omg. So did you have to walk home and go back to retrieve your car the next day? You and your friends really know how to party! My Halloween was... not like this. I'm a very, very boring person. Obviously.

NGS said...

Yeah, my Halloween is not like this, either. I don't have enough local friends!!! I need lessons on how to make friends, Allison.

Nicole said...

I am here for the drunken debauchery! Also, Lucy, I feel you.

Life of a Doctor's Wife said...

Baby birding?!?! Loved "Well done, Dave." Hilarious.

You and your friends and all the children (just kidding, I realize they are grown ups) really know how to have fun! I love it.

StephLove said...

Poor Lucy. She doesn't understand why you don't love her anymore. Nice costumes.

Nance said...

Pets are worse than kids with the time change.

You and your friends really do party! I am BORING--actually, no--DEAD compared to you.

Bibliomama said...

Ha ha no, I was prepared to walk, but the one sober dude left at the end of the night stuffed everyone in his car in what Eve's BFF's mom calls "Greek style" - including one guy in the trunk. Highly illegal, but it was very late and everyone lived very close by.

Bibliomama said...

Seriously, I am so weird and awkward but we were all squished together at a formative part of our lives and it just stuck.

Bibliomama said...

I know - time change sucks.

Bibliomama said...

This game was a sadistic masterpiece!

Bibliomama said...

The absolute look of reproach!

Bibliomama said...

Oh, not a chance. Our friends do keep life interesting, though.

Martha said...

That sure looks like a blast! I would enjoy partying with you :)

Bibliomama said...

Oh lord, this is your introduction to me? I swear I only debauch drunkenly a couple of times a year!

J said...

I WANT TO COME TO YOUR PARTY!

Angela said...

My dog is also not having the time change - it has been a rough transition.

I'm so intrigued by this chutes and ladders drinking game - how creative and fun!

San said...

What a great party! And I love that your kids want to hang out with you.... that's a GOOD SIGN!! :) (My family is the same, so I love hearing this from others!)

Sarah said...

of course the kids still hang out-- you guys are so fun!

This is the First Day of the Rest of Your December

 I always post the day after NaBloPoMo is over, and then I think, with adorable optimism, "maybe I will keep posting every day! What a ...